Using the Toilet – Social Story for Kids

- Grades
- Preschool–1, Elementary
- Pages
- 14
- File type
- Preparation
- Print ready
- Subject
- Special Resources, Life Skills, Special Education Needs (SEN)
- Topic
- social story, SEN
- Resource types
- Read Alouds
- Preparation
- Print ready
About this resource
What's inside this resource
Social stories are a crucial tool for nurturing social-emotional skills in children, especially those with autism or anxiety. Using a warm, reassuring tone, these stories walk kids through various situations or life skills step-by-step. This particular social story helps children learn to use the bathroom independently.
The story uses simple language and repetition to explain that kids should not wait when they need to use the toilet. As soon as they feel the urge to go, they should stop playing and go straight to the bathroom. The story talks through what to do at each step - enter the bathroom, lock the door, pull down pants, sit on the toilet, wipe, flush, wash hands, exit bathroom.
Seeing the process spelled out plainly gives children the confidence and knowledge to handle bathroom time themselves. Visual learners appreciate the clear sequence of events. Knowing bathroom expectations ahead of time reduces accidents and anxiety.
Parents and teachers can review this social story with kids during potty training or to reinforce independent bathroom habits. The reassuring tone and clear details aim to set children up for success. Going to the bathroom on their own is a major milestone that leads to confidence and independence. This story breaks down the steps to make this vital life skill understandable.
These books should be used over and over to reinforce the point so I would suggest either putting the pages into a display book or laminating and binding them.
Clipart images courtesy of Kari Bolt.
In the classroom
Teaching tips & learning objectives
Learning objectives
Recognize and respond to the physical need to use the toilet without delay.
Sequence the steps of an independent toileting routine (undress, sit, wipe, flush, redress, wash hands).
Build comfort and positive association with using the toilet through repeated first-person narrative reading.
Teaching tips
Choose the American ('pants') or international ('trousers') version to match the vocabulary already used at home or in the classroom, since the two versions are otherwise identical.
Read the story repeatedly and consistently as part of a toileting routine, since social stories work best with repetition to build familiarity.
Pair the story with real bathroom visits so the child can connect each first-person sentence to the corresponding physical step.
Skills covered
Toileting routine sequencing — the child follows a first-person narrative through each step of independently using the toilet.
Self-recognition of physical needs — the story models noticing and acting on the urge to use the toilet rather than having an accident.
Good to know
Questions teachers ask about this resource
The download includes two versions of 'Going to the Toilet' — what's the actual difference between them?
The two versions are otherwise identical first-person social stories; they differ only in regional vocabulary, with one saying 'pull down my pants' (American English) and the other saying 'pull down my trousers' (British/international English).
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Concepts & topics
Core concepts
social story
toileting independence
self-care routine
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