Kind Hands Social Story – Gentle Hands Resource

Talk about gentle hand use with a short first-person social story. The pages contrast helpful actions with pinching, hitting, hair pulling and pushing.
Grades
Not Grade Specific
Pages
15
File type
PDF
Preparation
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Updated Sep 24, 2021

Subject
Special Education Needs (SEN), Social Skills
Topic
Kind hands, Safe behavior
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From the author

Social stories use a patient and reassuring tone to teach children about social situations in a way that can be easily understood. Social stories are particularly useful for children on the autistic spectrum for whom social cues can be challenging and who often suffer anxiety if they do not know what to expect from a situation however social stories can also be useful for any child who is struggling to understand a situation or concept or needs help to understand a social skill or social cue, expectations, perspectives, common responses or is troubled about an upcoming event.

This social story is for children who have been hurting others. It explains ways that our hands can be kind and do good things and ways that our hands can be unkind and hurt others. It explains the consequences of using unkind hands and encourages children to not hurt others.

These books should be used over and over to reinforce the point so I would suggest either putting the pages into a display book or laminating and binding them.

Clipart images courtesy of Kari Bolt.

In the classroom

Teaching tips & learning objectives

Learning objectives

  • Identify specific hand behaviors as kind (waving, high fives, playing) or unkind (pinching, hitting, hair pulling, pushing)

  • Understand how unkind hand behaviors affect other people's feelings and willingness to keep playing

  • Practice using kind hands consistently as a way to keep friendships positive

Teaching tips

  • Read during a calm moment.

  • Model a helpful action and ask the child to choose one to practice.

  • Discuss respecting another person’s preference about touch.

Skills covered

  • Behavior identification — students learn to name specific hand behaviors as kind or unkind using the story's own simple vocabulary.

  • Cause-and-effect understanding — the story walks through how unkind hands lead to others feeling hurt, sad, or angry, and not wanting to play.

  • Self-regulation language — the story gives a child simple, repeatable words ('kind hands') to describe the behavior expected of them.

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Concepts & topics

Core concepts

  • Kind vs. unkind hand behaviors

  • Cause and effect of actions on others

  • Self-regulation

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