Teasing Social Story

Talk through how teasing affects others with a short social story that names examples, compares perspectives and offers a stop-and-think checklist before speaking.
Grades
Not Grade Specific
Pages
13
File type
PDF
Preparation
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Updated Sep 24, 2021

Subject
Special Education Needs (SEN), Social Skills
Topic
Teasing, Kind communication
Resource types
Activities
Preparation
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Product description

From the author

This first-person social story introduces teasing, gives examples and explores how a comment can feel different to the speaker and listener. A stop-and-think strategy leads to five questions: Is it true, helpful, inspiring, necessary and kind?

The 13-page PDF includes the story, checklist, closing commitment and credits, with illustrations by Kari Bolt. Read together, discuss fictional examples and revisit the checklist when useful. Pages can be placed in a display book or laminated and bound.

In the classroom

Teaching tips & learning objectives

Learning objectives

  • Identify examples of teasing behavior, such as name-calling or laughing at someone's mistake

  • Explain why a comment that feels funny to the speaker can still feel hurtful to the person it's directed at

  • Apply a five-question self-check (True, Helpful, Inspiring, Necessary, Kind) before speaking

Teaching tips

  • Read the story aloud one page at a time rather than all at once, since each page introduces a single idea (a definition, an example, a feeling, a strategy) meant to be discussed before moving to the next

  • Post or hand out the five-question self-check from page 11 separately as an ongoing classroom reference, since it's the story's concrete take-away strategy

  • Pair this story with a discussion of a recent classroom teasing situation, using the story's own contrast between how teasing feels to the speaker versus the person being teased as a discussion starter

Skills covered

  • Recognizing teasing behavior — the story names three concrete examples (name-calling, laughing at a mistake, mocking a skill gap) rather than defining teasing abstractly.

  • Perspective-taking — the story explicitly contrasts how teasing might feel funny to the person doing it with how it feels hurtful to the person being teased.

  • Self-regulation before speaking — a stop-and-think strategy and a five-question checklist give the student a concrete routine to apply before speaking.

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Questions teachers ask about this resource

How can I help students practice the checklist?

After reading, offer a fictional comment and ask students to consider whether it is true, helpful, inspiring, necessary and kind. Invite them to suggest a different way to speak if the original comment could hurt someone.

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Concepts & topics

Core concepts

  • Teasing

  • Empathy

  • Self-regulation

  • Kind communication

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